BODY LANGUAGE
It is important, whether during
your warm-up, or sales presentation, or when talking about your security
system, that you are able to read as much as you can about your prospects
and what there reactions are to what you are saying at any given moment.
We break them down to positive
signals from your prospect that mean "Yes, I am with you or I am comfortable
with you" and negative signals from your prospect that mean "No, I am not
with you or I am not comfortable with you" or even, YOUR LOSING ME!"
The importance of this review
is primarily to have you reflect upon how closely you watch for body language
and how it can direct you accordingly.
Examples of positive signals
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If the customer laughs or smiles
at something funny
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Strokes their chin/nods their head
- "I am with you!"
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Groom their hair in someway / if
men losen a collar or tie - "I am comfortable with you."
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If a customer puts their feet up
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If a customer show you pictures,
awards or anything about their personal life
Examples of negative signals
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The customer leads back and clasps
their hands or their arms
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Avoids eye contact
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If they close their eyes in long
frequent blinks
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Use their hands to mask or shield
their mouth
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Forehead furrors, eye brows knit
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Fidget while you talk
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If they do a series of more than
three head nods - We called it "forced nod service!"
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If they don't return a smile
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Support their head with their hands
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If they close their hands
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Bite their lips
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If you catch them looking at a
clock
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Put their fingers to the side of
their nose - they doubt you.
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Rub their nose alot